Sunday, April 17, 2011

Visit Home

      So this past week we visited back home which is only a few hours away, but seems like a whole nother state at this point. We only moved away about 6 or so months ago, but it just seems soo different now. We definetly got a big reminder of why we moved. The drama that surrounds my husbands and my own family is amazing! We just get all the good news since we live so far away and they always want us to visit, so when we actually get up there we actually hear EVERYTHING that has occurred while we were away. So yeah my husbands mom cheated about 2 1/2 years ago with her 1st cousin by marriage!!! Well then her husband put up camera's to catch her in the act and he did. Long story short she left town and moved away with her cousin...lived with his family for awhile which is also her aunt and uncle, then they talked them into getting married. Which for her this is the third marriage and his second but thats no big deal right? Other than they only did it because his family talked them into it because of there religion! So now back to the present, they have been married a lil over a year and she has already caught her new husband cheating and apparently she has been doing the same!Oh and they just bought a house and are moving in together, they have been living with other people since they got married including us, yeah we kicked them out. WOW yeah thats a whole lot going on right? Well on top of that the guy my husbands mom was married to before she married her cousin was my husbands real dad. Still following? Well, we ended up catching up with one of his workers this past week while we were there, yeah his dad owns his own business, and he filled us in on what my husbands dad has been up to. The woman he has been dating since his last wife cheated (my husbands mom), has five kids, and apparently he has been sleeping with the oldest one and paying her so she can afford rent where she is living with her 3 kids....WHAT!!!??? Yes, this must just be the norm for some people! I see and hear about this kind of stuff happening all the time, but you never really know the truth or if someone fabricated a story. Well, I can voutch for this one, at least the whole part about the camera's to catch his wife cheating because we were out of town visiting other family members at the very time he caught his wife on camera but as soon as we returned, my husbands dad showed me the pictures of the whole incident and there is NO denying what was on them!  So yes this is my rant for the day, it just amazes me what people will do. Does marriage not mean anything anymore? Are people just that slutty or do they just not even want to try to make there marriage work? I mean by no means are my husband and I perfect we have definetly had our problems but we have worked them out! I would just hate to be known as a whore to my children and grandchildren, because I keep sleeping around,married or not makes no difference. So I am going to leave that as that for right now because I could write a book about my husbands family, and there drama, and I have only known them for about 5 years!!! All comments are welcome, I would love to know so people's opinions on the situations